“I did not like this feeling of having feelings.” ― Jeff Lindsay, Darkly Dreaming Dexter “You are such a cry baby!” “You are such a sensitive person.” “You always take everything to heart.” The labels have been bestowed upon me as if they are bad things. For most of my life, I have […]
Read More“When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers.” Ralph Waldo Emerson Twelve steps or three leaps. That’s how […]
Read More“There ain’t no sin and there ain’t no virtue. There’s just stuff people do. It’s all part of the same thing. And some of the things folks do is nice, and some ain’t nice, but that’s as far as any man got a right to say.”― John Steinbeck, The Grapes of Wrath Hitting another person […]
Read More“Educating the mind without educating the heart, is no education at all.” —Aristotle For a couple of months, my morning walks with our dog are stress-free; school is not in session. The rest of the year, our morning maneuvers require a little more thought. I try to walk before the road gets busy, but […]
Read More“Man is not worried by real problems so much as by his imagined anxieties about real problems” ― Epictetus My imagination has been the root of more problems than have ever existed on their own. I’m not sure when it began, but I think that my female intuition figures in there somewhere, which has […]
Read More“People aren’t either wicked or noble. They’re like chef’s salads, with good things and bad things chopped and mixed together in a vinaigrette of confusion and conflict.” ― Lemony Snicket, The Grim Grotto The suitcase is huge. Hard-shelled, pink and white polka dots, it is easy to identify when it comes down […]
Read More“There are two kinds of people, those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there.” Indira Gandhi I have tried so hard in so many arenas to be the best. Haven’t you? I have felt unappreciated, defeated, and stepped on along the […]
Read MoreThe headlines beg for you to read about the latest person arrested for bad choices. Admittedly, if it is a 50 year-old who has made bad choices over and over, they aren’t showing much interest in changing, but what about the people in these stories? I have a few issues with the articles I see that […]
Read MoreWhen my children were little, I tried to do things with them that were fun and entertaining. More than anything, I wanted my boys to know joy in life…pure and simple joy. I remember the very first time we took them to the beach. It rained. I was so afraid the trip might be ruined, […]
Read MoreI have been asked more in the past month about my philosophy on taking these pictures than ever before. “Why do you give away your pictures?” It’s pretty simple. One fee from a group means that everyone in the group has equal access to photos. There are times that a photographer needs to make money […]
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